SauLan wrote:However, using union practice is not "sex," any more than prostrations are "exercise," or chanting mantras is "music."
Mantras may appear to be music, prostrations may appear to be physical exercise, and union practices may appear to be sex, but that doesn't make it so. We are human beings, and anything at all that we do may be therefore mistaken for mere, ordinary activity; but it is our motivation and reasoning which determines whether our activity is actually mundane or spiritual.
A person may appear to be simply walking; but if they are engaged in walking meditation, they are actually meditating, not simply walking.
A clearer example might be a person who is fasting, taking only water, and no solid food: when taking a drink, someone from the outside may say, "Look, that person is drinking, and fostering a craving for satisfying thirst," when in fact the practitioners is avoiding food, specifically to reduce his craving for food overall. Again, it's the motivation, especially over time, which makes the difference, rather than the superficial appearance of one, specific act.
There is a saying in Chan Buddhist 禪宗, “A straight mind is the Bodhi-way place. 直心是道場”
You must be quite aware of it as well.
Your statements are right, and they do make sense for worldly analysis.
However, in terms of Buddhism, the conscious mind is a vital tool to uncover the Truth, but not to be submerged by meaningless trifles.
Just to remind you, the very basic of Buddhist cultivation is to reduce clinging to the name-and-form 名色, even more so not to complicate one’s mind with useless objects. As my earlier post read:
Buddhism wrote:The Three-Vehicle Bodhi 三乘菩提are:
1. Sound-Hearer Bodhi: Buddha Sakyamuni began by teaching this method to help practitioners build up their confidence in the Buddha dharma. The practitioner must observe that his physical body is illusory and that the sensation aggregate, perception aggregate, formation aggregate, and vijnana aggregate, which all derive from this body, are illusory as well. After the practitioner hears the Buddha’s teachings, he will observe mindfully to verify the non-substantiality of the above five aggregates, and he will realize that all these will eventually cease to exist and thus cannot be relied on. As a result, he will feel a sense of aversion and the urge to detach himself from everything. Eventually, as he fully believes in the Buddha’s teachings that every individual possesses the eighth vijnana, which neither arises nor ceases. He will then calmly and entirely abandon selfhood and become an Arhat. After his death, the Arhat will not take another rebirth. He will not appear in the human or heavenly realm. The Arhat is therefore liberated from the cycle of births and deaths and will enter nirvana. (Teachings from the Four Agama Sutras).
So, the key issue here is to have the correct knowledge of the proper cultivating stage, instead of indulging in or playing with the words and minds. For your references, thank you.