johnny138 wrote:divea wrote:Crap. Parents do not make decisions for their children. They enable them, to make right decisions for themselves.
And they make decisions for them until they can make their own.
Like what?
johnny138 wrote:divea wrote:Crap. Parents do not make decisions for their children. They enable them, to make right decisions for themselves.
And they make decisions for them until they can make their own.

divea wrote:johnny138 wrote:divea wrote:Crap. Parents do not make decisions for their children. They enable them, to make right decisions for themselves.
And they make decisions for them until they can make their own.
Like what?
divea wrote:johnny138 wrote:divea wrote:Crap. Parents do not make decisions for their children. They enable them, to make right decisions for themselves.
And they make decisions for them until they can make their own.
Like what?


Confuzius wrote:divea wrote:johnny138 wrote:divea wrote:Crap. Parents do not make decisions for their children. They enable them, to make right decisions for themselves.
And they make decisions for them until they can make their own.
Like what?
You serious????
where to go to school
to go to school
what to eat
often, what to wear
chores
to do their homework
brush their teeth
take out the garbage
wipe their ass
where to live
how to talk
to go to bed at a certain time
Could name many more. Unless, of course, someone is an idiot hippy and raises total loser children.

divea wrote:Everything you mentioned are duties and not decisions. It is your bloody duty to wipe you kid's arse , feed him and send him to school. Give him up for adoption if you don't want to do any of those things. We don't betroth them at age 3 because we want them to grow up and make that decision, ditto with paying his college tuition fee in an engineer's course. we want them to grow up and choose what to to be proficient in.

cfimages wrote:Confuzius wrote:divea wrote:johnny138 wrote:divea wrote:Crap. Parents do not make decisions for their children. They enable them, to make right decisions for themselves.
And they make decisions for them until they can make their own.
Like what?
You serious????
where to go to school
to go to school
what to eat
often, what to wear
chores
to do their homework
brush their teeth
take out the garbage
wipe their ass
where to live
how to talk
to go to bed at a certain time
Could name many more. Unless, of course, someone is an idiot hippy and raises total loser children.
None of which involves the completely unnecessary and irreversible removal of body parts.

divea wrote:Everything you mentioned are duties and not decisions. It is your bloody duty to wipe you kid's arse , feed him and send him to school. Give him up for adoption if you don't want to do any of those things. We don't betroth them at age 3 because we want them to grow up and make that decision, ditto with paying his college tuition fee in an engineer's course. we want them to grow up and choose what to to be proficient in.
johnny138 wrote:divea wrote:Everything you mentioned are duties and not decisions. It is your bloody duty to wipe you kid's arse , feed him and send him to school. Give him up for adoption if you don't want to do any of those things. We don't betroth them at age 3 because we want them to grow up and make that decision, ditto with paying his college tuition fee in an engineer's course. we want them to grow up and choose what to to be proficient in.
It's also a parent's responsibility to raise their kids morally and teach them ethics. For some of us, that is done in our religious traditions and that's where it's going to stay whether those who disagree like it or not.
The question the OP raised is based on religious freedom. Recognizing another person's freedom doesn't mean a thing unless it's something you personally disagree with. That's where the real test of freedom begins. Just because you don't personally approve of it doesn't mean it's wrong for everyone else.


Confuzius wrote:divea wrote:Everything you mentioned are duties and not decisions. It is your bloody duty to wipe you kid's arse , feed him and send him to school. Give him up for adoption if you don't want to do any of those things. We don't betroth them at age 3 because we want them to grow up and make that decision, ditto with paying his college tuition fee in an engineer's course. we want them to grow up and choose what to to be proficient in.
You need to actually read a post before commenting (well, it is simply nice to do so, wastes useless back and forths...like this one)
where to live-not a duty
where to go to school-not a duty
when to go to bed-not a duty
too tired and don't care enough to go through the others, actually read them all next time before you say "everything". Thanks in advance.
, the kids decide on their own!!! You crack me up by even suggesting that you can make decisions for your child. When you cut off his foreskin, it isn't 'hey kid I helped you oooon with your trousers because you weren't able to', it is 'I cut off your little part because I read in my book that EYE should do it TO you'.
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