agent007 wrote:Is it considered slander if I write a letter and expose to the employer ,co workers and friends of the man who is having an affair with my wife?A lawyer told me according to TW laws,slander could still be established even though you are telling the truth.
agent007 wrote:Deuce Dropper wrote:agent007 wrote:jdsmith wrote:agent007 wrote:jdsmith wrote:Watch out for scams. Do you plan on using the evidence for divorce? if so, why not just save your money and divorce her?
Keeping my options open.Divorce or prosecute the guy.
Make the guy pay for...oh gosh. That's coooooold.
I just want him out of the picture.I may still want to save the marriage.
I know nothing of your case, but blaming this guy for everything will only leave you with a false sense of security if you do try and patch things up with your wife, and in all likelihood your wife will go do the same thing again.
It takes two to tango, and unless this guy is coercing your wife into relations, she is best case scenario 50% into this tryst.
Its time to step back and examine this as we see it. You are on a messageboard anonymously asking for PI info so you can spy on your wife in the hopes that you can fuck over her lover. Your anger is in the wrong direction, if you truly want to save your marriage, talk to your wife, scapegoating the other guy won't solve very much.
I am not blaming EVERYTHING on the guy but he is part of the problem.There is no anger here.I just simply want to gather evidence .I am not doing this in hopes of "fucking over her lover" even though that is justifiable.
Teddoman wrote:Video or photos speak louder than slander. Even if your goal is to embarass the dude into stopping the affair, let the video or photos do the talking.
I notice you didn't mention exposing him to his family. I wonder if you should consider this too. Family politics is always complicated, and you might find his parents or siblings become your allies, if they know what he is up to. That is, if they don't chase you off the property first.