divea wrote:Guys you watch a lot of T.V. Like a lot. This man here is flesh and blood, he is angry, humiliated and wants the other guy to be humiliated but that's not going to make him feel better.
I'm not trying to read into his state of mind. I'm just taking the thread at face value. The guy says he's trying to save his marriage, and he is thinking through calmly and rationally the steps to do so. No idea if it's the right move, but can't blame him for trying to save his marriage.