for having worked with a few of those maid agencies, many of them treat those young girls abjectly and are often in the grey zone as legal is concerned.
I can only agree with Tommy, no matter why she married that old guy (hey she is probably only from an un educated part of the world and "convinced" to do so), there aren't any reasons to make her "pay" for it... I just don't follw the logic there.
Even with the best friend, yeah the breach of honesty isn't the way to go but we ought not burn her on the market place. People get married for various reasons (haha especially women
take a look at the ladder thoery) and can appreciate each other in different ways and for various reasons. the nuance is even accentuated from one culture to another. It doesn't all have to be walt disney
well in any case thanks for the gossip like story ~ even if you were right after all at the begining I was laughing at the sight of "taiwanese girlfriend" and the words meddling popping up ..