DazedNConfuzed wrote:This and Hartzell's post are the best two posts in this thread, IMO. Especially since you are a foreigner, and she is still married with a kid. Find a nice single girl. I can't believe people are telling you to keep going, seriously??. Don't be a 男小三!!
I wholeheartedly second the motion.
(I stopped being a visitor to Forumosa and joined up just to say so.)
Seriously, how far is the relationship going to progress when you've only got a vocabulary of a few hundred words to communicate with?
You will soon run out of things to talk about.
Then you'll be even more lonely, because you'll be stuck in the relationship and unable find someone else that you can really talk to in your own language.
As Annie Proulx said in The Shipping News, "love comes in other colors than the basic black of none and the red heat of obsession".
BTW, I'm all in favor of relationships between people of the same age bracket.
You said it's hard to find a single woman your age.
Smart, well-educated, English-speaking, good looking (and, might I add, single) women in their 30s and 40s are out there.
When you eventually hook up with one you will wonder what the hell you were thinking dating a married Vietnamese woman.
Do not go any further with this relationship.
Been there, done that.