horo36 wrote:This is one of the saddest posts I read. If your life is so bad that you must hung on a woman you don't love to gain APRC....then I really feel sorry for you. Can you be yourself for those 2-3 years that you plan to wait in this marriage? Will you be still yourself after that time? Or maybe your life has already changed you, bent you so much that you actually don't care?
I agree there are other ways to get APRC than staying in a bad relationship and ruin oneself's life. Just do it through your work. If you think it is not possible, then do everything so that it becomes possible.
The easy road is not always as easy as you think. There is always a high price to pay for it. To pay for using other people.