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Re: Are mainland China girls better than Taiwan girls?

Postby Chris » 12 Jan 2012, 20:08

Charlie Phillips wrote:Image

Ask Winston.

My first thought a few lines into the first post.
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Re: Are mainland China girls better than Taiwan girls?

Postby Mr He » 12 Jan 2012, 20:53

NonTocareLeTete wrote: I was hoping you could offer some insight into my situation. See, I want most of the things you want (the wholesomeness, sincerity and authenticity) but since I'm a woman, and a straight one at that, I want these qualities in a guy. So my question to you is, which country has the best stock to offer in the men department? Are Canadians better than Americans? Between Ozzies and South Africans, who's more sincere? If I had a choice between setting up an online dating account in Brazil vs. Argentina, which should I choose?
Now my cousin spent a couple of years in Japan and he says that he might marry a Japanese girl cause if he did, he'd never have to clean a dirty dish or do a dirty diaper. What I'm wondering is if there's a male equivalent of Japanese women. Could a man like this be found in, say, Greenland or Iceland? Since I've got my college degree and all and I've always been pretty decent at making money, I'm not so much concerned with income as I am with the man being family-oriented and good at cunninglingus.
Please let me know if you have any advice.
Thanks.


Look for countries which rank highly on the gender equation list, the men there have been taught to take care of babies, and well, in at least one scandinavian country, they even touched upon how to be a cunning linguist in school sex education - or they did that in the late 1980's.
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Re: Are mainland China girls better than Taiwan girls?

Postby Tomas » 12 Jan 2012, 21:17

NonTocareLeTete wrote:
PassionforTruth wrote:It sure seems like it. I've corresponded with women in mainland China and they seem a LOT more sincere, serious, straightforward and authentic, like girls were in the 1970's. They have not been corrupted with narcissism like Taiwan and the US have.

I used this free dating site called DateinAsia. Any of you use it too? I've met a lot of high quality women from China through it. But the Taiwanese women rarely ever write me back, and if they do, they are only polite and write bland things. They never offer to meet me or show personal interest.

But the girls in China write me everyday and show high interest. The difference is astounding. I used to think girls were the same in China and Taiwan. But now I know they are clearly not. Can anyone explain why they are different?

Any of you who have been to China want to comment?

By, the way, I'm a Chinese American, which is considered a hot item in China, much more than it is in Taiwan. So maybe that's a factor too.

Also, when I was in college, I noticed that students from mainland China seemed more relaxed and easygoing than the ones from Taiwan or Hong Kong.

However, the Chinese have a reputation for being repressed, cold and cliquish. So how do you explain that?

Any insights or experiences?


I was hoping you could offer some insight into my situation. See, I want most of the things you want (the wholesomeness, sincerity and authenticity) but since I'm a woman, and a straight one at that, I want these qualities in a guy. So my question to you is, which country has the best stock to offer in the men department? Are Canadians better than Americans? Between Ozzies and South Africans, who's more sincere? If I had a choice between setting up an online dating account in Brazil vs. Argentina, which should I choose?
Now my cousin spent a couple of years in Japan and he says that he might marry a Japanese girl cause if he did, he'd never have to clean a dirty dish or do a dirty diaper. What I'm wondering is if there's a male equivalent of Japanese women. Could a man like this be found in, say, Greenland or Iceland? Since I've got my college degree and all and I've always been pretty decent at making money, I'm not so much concerned with income as I am with the man being family-oriented and good at cunninglingus.
Please let me know if you have any advice.
Thanks.


I have a good friend who lives in the Hollywood hills. Owns a lovely home, drives a Lexus, owns a thriving business and produces and writes for TV when he isn't at the office. Handsome, fit, a good dresser, 32 years old, is likely very good at cunnilingus (I'm not a woman so I'm not sure, but I'm guessing he is. He reads a lot, studies stuff). Very down to earn, modest, funny. He can't find a woman in Hollywood who isn't plastic, a drug addict, a nutter, or all of the above.

Maybe you should move to Hollywood :) .
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Re: Are mainland China girls better than Taiwan girls?

Postby NonTocareLeTete » 12 Jan 2012, 23:30

Indiana wrote: :lol: I like you, NonTocareLeTete.

The feeling is mutual, Indi.
But why oh why has no one answered my sincere question?
Tomas wrote:I have a good friend who lives in the Hollywood hills. Owns a lovely home, drives a Lexus, owns a thriving business and produces and writes for TV when he isn't at the office. Handsome, fit, a good dresser, 32 years old, is likely very good at cunnilingus (I'm not a woman so I'm not sure, but I'm guessing he is. He reads a lot, studies stuff). Very down to earn, modest, funny. He can't find a woman in Hollywood who isn't plastic, a drug addict, a nutter, or all of the above.

Maybe you should move to Hollywood :) .

Actually, I've got a boyfriend who I'm pretty thrilled with at the moment. But I do have to say I had a brief stint in socal before I came here and maaaaaaaan was I ever popular there. And that's what one of the guys told me there- 'you're so different. All the other girls are so fake!' So ya know, some day I might go back.
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Re: Are mainland China girls better than Taiwan girls?

Postby henryhu » 14 Jan 2012, 22:23

I think Chinese girls are much more obedient, subservient, and happy in their roles as "wife". Or even if not exactly obedient, they are more willing to have a distant relationship where each partner goes their separate ways while they individually work or their goals, occasionally meeting to make a baby or two (only if you have party connections). If, however, you want a partner in life that you see as an equal with whom you can have open communication while forging a life together, I think Taiwanese girls are the way to go (though that "open communication" is still a struggle). Sure, in countries where women have more freedoms to define their lives as they wish outside of prescribed roles, you will see some bad and plastic choices. You will also have, though, some impressive humans that do not rely on cajoling a man to get what they want. If by a 70's woman, the OP meant more domesticated and docile, go to China. And if by 70's woman he meant more sexually liberated but still reliant on men, go to China. For that matter, if you want to experience society in terms of gender roles, social norms or structure of 40 years ago... go to China.

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Re: Are mainland China girls better than Taiwan girls?

Postby ehophi » 17 Jan 2012, 06:07

Who's Winston?
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Re: Are mainland China girls better than Taiwan girls?

Postby cyborg_ninja » 19 Jan 2012, 17:49

henryhu wrote:I think Chinese girls are much more obedient, subservient, and happy in their roles as "wife". Or even if not exactly obedient, they are more willing to have a distant relationship where each partner goes their separate ways while they individually work or their goals, occasionally meeting to make a baby or two (only if you have party connections). If, however, you want a partner in life that you see as an equal with whom you can have open communication while forging a life together, I think Taiwanese girls are the way to go (though that "open communication" is still a struggle). Sure, in countries where women have more freedoms to define their lives as they wish outside of prescribed roles, you will see some bad and plastic choices. You will also have, though, some impressive humans that do not rely on cajoling a man to get what they want. If by a 70's woman, the OP meant more domesticated and docile, go to China. And if by 70's woman he meant more sexually liberated but still reliant on men, go to China. For that matter, if you want to experience society in terms of gender roles, social norms or structure of 40 years ago... go to China.


wrong. chinese girls are way more hardcore than taiwanese girls, way less submissive.
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Re: Are mainland China girls better than Taiwan girls?

Postby Ryan the third » 19 Jan 2012, 18:08

cyborg_ninja wrote:
henryhu wrote:I think Chinese girls are much more obedient, subservient, and happy in their roles as "wife". Or even if not exactly obedient, they are more willing to have a distant relationship where each partner goes their separate ways while they individually work or their goals, occasionally meeting to make a baby or two (only if you have party connections). If, however, you want a partner in life that you see as an equal with whom you can have open communication while forging a life together, I think Taiwanese girls are the way to go (though that "open communication" is still a struggle). Sure, in countries where women have more freedoms to define their lives as they wish outside of prescribed roles, you will see some bad and plastic choices. You will also have, though, some impressive humans that do not rely on cajoling a man to get what they want. If by a 70's woman, the OP meant more domesticated and docile, go to China. And if by 70's woman he meant more sexually liberated but still reliant on men, go to China. For that matter, if you want to experience society in terms of gender roles, social norms or structure of 40 years ago... go to China.


wrong. chinese girls are way more hardcore than taiwanese girls, way less submissive.


Doesnt that really depend on the time in the relationship? :P
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Re: Are mainland China girls better than Taiwan girls?

Postby bumclouds » 27 Jan 2012, 02:33

ehophi wrote:Who's Winston?


Yeah... who is he... I looked him up on google but all I got was a wall-o-text personal webpage I couldn't be f*cked reading. Summary please.
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Re: Are mainland China girls better than Taiwan girls?

Postby ehophi » 31 Jan 2012, 05:43

bumclouds wrote:
ehophi wrote:Who's Winston?


Yeah... who is he... I looked him up on google but all I got was a wall-o-text personal webpage I couldn't be f*cked reading. Summary please.


I got the last name on another thread, and I found this: http://www.happierabroad.com/WinstonWu.htm
There I found this little tidbit.

http://www.happierabroad.com/WinstonWu.htm wrote:3) With his talent in strategy and logic, and an above average IQ, he can beat computers in Chess and Scrabble up to high levels.
Possessing a natural aptitude in strategy, logic, and an above average IQ (approx 120), Wu is brilliant in debate and logical arguments, as well as board games. He can beat computers in Chess and Scrabble up to high levels, which most people cannot. In Chess, he can beat the computer up to level 4 or 5, whereas most people cannot even beat level 1.


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