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Re: White girls dating Asian guys?

Postby mukashi » 06 May 2013, 09:17

good luck guys... wavelengths are important :)

also, here's Taichung PAWS FB page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Taichung ... 18?fref=ts
You see, there's some foreign girls helping dogs there :)
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Re: White girls dating Asian guys?

Postby hansioux » 27 May 2016, 13:41

I don't know whether to start a new thread or just revive one of these old threads about non-Asian's perception of East Asian man. I decided to revive this one.

I recently came across this video made by MTV:



which addressed the issue of Asian male and female stereotypes from a historical viewpoint. Kind of refreshing and interesting for a history geek.
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Re: White girls dating Asian guys?

Postby Taiwan Luthiers » 27 May 2016, 13:51

Dating as a whole seems very racist, and I even had one guy defending it (he felt it was necessary for survival)
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Re: White girls dating Asian guys?

Postby tommy525 » 27 May 2016, 14:14

Good vid but perceptions are hard to change. The younger white ladies are more open to dating their Asian male classmates, so there's hope for the future for Asian dudes.

Currently I would say in CAlifornia it looks something like this (very broad generalization here):

White guys like not just for humping for for a long term relationship possibly leading to marriage:
1. white girls
2. some ways off from white girls, Asian girls
3. (slightly less then Asian ) latina and other "brown girls"
4. (a LOT less then above) black girls

Black guys:
1. white girls
2. Asian girls
3. latina and other "brown girls"
4. black girls

Asian guys :
1. Asian girls
2. White girls
3. Latino and other brown skinned girls
4. Black girls

White girls like :
1. white guys
2. latino guys
3. black guys (possibly equal to indian guys)
4. and far less then above , Asian guys

Asian girls like :
1. white guys
2. a bit less, but number two Asian guys
3. latino and other brown skinned guys
4. indian and black possibly on same level

Black girls like:
1. black guys first choice
2. white guys much less, but possibly second
3. indian and other brown skin guys
4. Asian guys

Latino guys and gals seem to prefer white gals/ guys on par with latino guys
Indian and other brownies probably second
Asian guys LAST AGAIN

So being an Asian guy in America means not getting a lot of attention from any group other then Asian . Unless one were famous, or particularly social in class, etc.
Thank goodness Asian girls still like Asian guys , otherwise, NOT GOOD bro.

Anyway broad generalizations.

But Asian girls seem to pretty much hold their own against their chief nemesis , the WHITE GIRL (who may think they are up against a lot from Asian ladies but they still got the edge in many ways). White girls are actually sought after the most from all the other races. Followed by Asian ladies, not the other way around.

Asian dudes? Ain't gonna get jiggy unless you work like heck for it. And you best be happy you at least got the Asian girls thinking you are OK.

People watching is a pass time of mine. I have watched through the years many similar situs:

CRowded cafe, lots of young and still kinda young guys and gals. Decent looking , youngish Asian guy comes through the door, no honkie chicks pay any attention. No mex chicks , basically NO chicks pay much attention. Asian girls are too busy looking at their books because they are probably being eyeballed by at least some people in the cafe. YEs we Asian dudes, we are pretty much invisible.

Decent looking, youngish white guy comes through the door, you can always spot the white girls looking up, checking things out. Asian girls? Maybe, maybe not, probably not. Latina chicks? Indian and other chicks? Maybe, maybe not.

Decent looking white or Asian chick comes through the door. A few sets of eyes on them. A lot of the dudes, and even the gals catching a glimpse. They are NOT invisible.

If you are a young or youngish Asian chick you will most likely be asked your number as you go around the cafes bookstores ,and what not.

Asian guys? Don't hold your breath waiting for THAT to happen.

But things are looking up for Asian dudes in colleges and high schools. IF they are at all nice looking and outgoing they usually do ok if not pretty well.
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Re: White girls dating Asian guys?

Postby paperjohn » 27 May 2016, 14:37

Asian guys can still date Asian girls. They have a harder time with everyone else but Asian girls are really hot so yea.
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Re: White girls dating Asian guys?

Postby super_lucky » 27 May 2016, 14:45

paperjohn wrote:Asian guys can still date Asian girls. They have a harder time with everyone else but Asian girls are really hot so yea.


Yeah, thanks for the confirmation and clarification, Captain. You had me worried for a minute there. I thought you were going to post something relevant to the conversation.
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Re: White girls dating Asian guys?

Postby tommy525 » 27 May 2016, 15:04

:) yeah at least we can get Asian girls and that ain't TOO BAD :)

Asian girls generally hairless, slightly almond eyes = attractive, feminine
Asian guys generally hairless, slightly almond eyes = not so "macho" even if not feminine
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Re: White girls dating Asian guys?

Postby RickRooney » 27 May 2016, 15:07

i aint gonna worry about Asian guys in the west. they still have Asian girls to choose from, and thats a pretty large selection. they don't exactly have a hard time either. i used to know a guy from hong kong back in my uni days. he was pretty quiet, funny and shy enough to fit the common Asian guy stereotype. that is until i found out he was dating several japanese girls at the same time. thats when i learnt that the timid stereotype of Asian guys is bs. talk about the history of white guys having a Asian fetish, what about the history or Asian guys whoring? thats a whole other subject. didn't see much mention of it in the video funnily enough..

didn't like the video at all, western women generally don't like Asian guys whether they knew about them being allowed to buy American houses in the past or not. I agree the Hollywood stuff is pretty low, i dunno how that sort of thing continues in this day and age.

the Asian girl in the video was super annoying. its always abcs that are complaining about guys with an Asian fetish. its kind of ironic that actual Asian girls from asia don't have a problem with Asian fetish white guys, infact alot even have their own fetish for westerners.
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Re: White girls dating Asian guys?

Postby hansioux » 27 May 2016, 15:24

RickRooney wrote:i aint gonna worry about Asian guys in the west. they still have Asian girls to choose from, and thats a pretty large selection. they don't exactly have a hard time either.


Try living in El Paso. Also, even in California, Asian girls only make up about 13.7% of the female population.
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Re: White girls dating Asian guys?

Postby RickRooney » 27 May 2016, 15:29

boo hoo, its even less where I'm from.
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