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Re: Have APRC by marriage and having an affair

Postby tommy525 » 22 Jun 2015, 00:15

ironlady wrote:
tommy525 wrote:However, the USA being a human rights believin country gives leeway in the case of an abused partner.


As long as the abused party is the foreign applicant spouse, not the US national spouse. In practice, if the case does not look suspicious to them or have statistical "red flags", they will not even interview you, just send you a form that has you check whether or not you (the US national spouse) entered the marriage in good faith. No questions at all about the foreign spouse's behavior or intentions (I suppose they do a criminal recrord check, but not sure).

At least this was my personal experience. On the plus side, I am good Facebook friends with the second ex-wife. :D


Yes I meant the abused being the foreign spouse. What ? NO interview? There definitely is going to be an interview when you are going for your initial temp Green Card. Even if there is no suspicion, I have not heard of anyone getting a form to just send in these days. At best the interview will go very smoothly (like ours did).

And far as I know, when you pay your 800 plus dollars for the Permanent Green Card there will be another interview. I don't think they will just send us a form for us to fill in and send in. That would be great, but that is not what I gathered will be the situation.

At the interview for the Permanent Green Card (after one's marriage is in effect over two years), one is supposed to once again present evidence of the union . Show joint ownership of property or loan (such as being together on an Auto loan or mortgage or at least the lease agreement). Pictures together. Affidavits from neighbors that the union is together could be helpful, etc. And the Immigration Occifer will perhaps ask some tricky questions or not.

Our first interview was luckily smooth and was over in about 15 minutes. Others report quite a trying interview. IF they suspect you are in a fraudulent marriage they will separate you and grill the shitzle out of you.
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Re: Have APRC by marriage and having an affair

Postby bigduke6 » 22 Jun 2015, 08:23

Blaquesmith wrote:
bigduke6 wrote:You can get a JFRV through your child, if he/she is a national.


I guess in order to do that, you need to have full custody of the kid. There have been cases in Forumosa where the Taiwanese parent had full custody and the foreign parent was unable to get a visa, having to leave the country because of that.


I personally know two divorced guys who have gone this route extremely easily. If it is rejected, it is definitely for another reason.
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Re: Have APRC by marriage and having an affair

Postby Blaquesmith » 22 Jun 2015, 10:24

bigduke6 wrote:
Blaquesmith wrote:
bigduke6 wrote:You can get a JFRV through your child, if he/she is a national.


I guess in order to do that, you need to have full custody of the kid. There have been cases in Forumosa where the Taiwanese parent had full custody and the foreign parent was unable to get a visa, having to leave the country because of that.


I personally know two divorced guys who have gone this route extremely easily. If it is rejected, it is definitely for another reason.


Good to know, if the shit ever hits the fan.
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Re: Have APRC by marriage and having an affair

Postby billoncho » 09 Nov 2015, 14:24

You can marry a Filipina. I and two friends are married to Filipinas and have been in Taiwan with our wives for years.
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Re: Have APRC by marriage and having an affair

Postby wonder » 08 May 2016, 16:13

bigduke6 wrote:
amying wrote:OK, so I'm not gonna say I'm asking for a friend...my spouse is Taiwanese and I'm having an affair. Can I be deported if found out and if that is what my spouse wants?
Haven't been found out yet, but who knows.....


There is no such thing as an APRC through marriage. You have a marriage ARC/JFRV. An APRC and marriage ARC are two TOTALLY different things, with totally different ramifications should you get into shit. You need to get your facts straight. With a marriage ARC, a divorce means your reason for being here, is terminated, along with you.


The deeper issue here is why you are having an affair, not if you can get away with it or what happens when or if you get caught. TBH, I am surprised your TW can't smell it on you.

Stop the affair and get a divorce and then relax. There's no point in ruining lives this way. Find someone you can spend your life with, without needing an affair to keep you happy.

As a Western guy in an Asian country, you have many chances at having sex. But just having sex for the sake of it or having sex because you are unhappy with your gal is selfish and will end badly, even if she doesn't find out.

Somewhere down the line Karma will catch up with you my friend. Take this as advice rather than a warning. You will be much happier with one woman.
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Re: Have APRC by marriage and having an affair

Postby Yang Gui Zi » 09 May 2016, 08:23

wonder wrote:
bigduke6 wrote:
amying wrote:OK, so I'm not gonna say I'm asking for a friend...my spouse is Taiwanese and I'm having an affair. Can I be deported if found out and if that is what my spouse wants?
Haven't been found out yet, but who knows.....


There is no such thing as an APRC through marriage. You have a marriage ARC/JFRV. An APRC and marriage ARC are two TOTALLY different things, with totally different ramifications should you get into shit. You need to get your facts straight. With a marriage ARC, a divorce means your reason for being here, is terminated, along with you.


The deeper issue here is why you are having an affair, not if you can get away with it or what happens when or if you get caught. TBH, I am surprised your TW can't smell it on you.

Stop the affair and get a divorce and then relax. There's no point in ruining lives this way. Find someone you can spend your life with, without needing an affair to keep you happy.

As a Western guy in an Asian country, you have many chances at having sex. But just having sex for the sake of it or having sex because you are unhappy with your gal is selfish and will end badly, even if she doesn't find out.

Somewhere down the line Karma will catch up with you my friend. Take this as advice rather than a warning. You will be much happier with one woman.

What if the OP is a woman? :whistle:
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