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How to forget someone

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How to forget someone

Postby stephaniewindom » 13 May 2015, 18:16

Step 1: Dedicate one last night to your feelings. If you're really sad, cry your heart out, drench your pillow, for tomorrow you'd be a free man.

Step 2: You're a bit free of stress now, acknowledge that. Thank yourself for that.You're awesome. Spend some time doing something you love and do that with all your heart. Do something new, something you always wanted to do. Maybe some new idea you had? Work on it. The time is now.

Step 3: Stop keeping in touch with her. No phone calls, no re-reading your old messages. If you guys were really good friends, you will be friends again. But give time a chance to make things anew before that. When you meet again after that, things will not be the same.
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Re: How to forget someone

Postby Il Ðoge » 13 May 2015, 18:28

If only I could recommend that post! Oh God, why did I socialize recommendations? What have I done?
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Re: How to forget someone

Postby RickRooney » 13 May 2015, 19:52

walk literally outside your door and find someone new.
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Re: How to forget someone

Postby tommy525 » 13 May 2015, 23:27

Its hard. Only time can heal a broken heart. AFter enough time you will usually wonder why the heck you even shed a tear. And after more time, you start to forget their names (because you have started to forget most anything and everything).

That's so long as they didn't die on you. Then it could be a bitch to forget.
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Re: How to forget someone

Postby stephaniewindom » 15 May 2015, 15:04

It takes me one week at most to forget about someone I used to love even if the relationship lasted for a long period of time. You might think that I am emotionally strong or that I am an exception but the truth is that I suffered for more than a year after my first breakup and then after reading about love’s psychology I developed some kind of immunity to breakups.
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Re: How to forget someone

Postby eddie4 » 21 May 2015, 01:44

It is really hard to forget someone you care or love. But sometimes thing just happened out of control. But life goes on and you never know what awaits in future. My suggestion avoid the place visit or any thing attach with her reminds the memory.


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Re: How to forget someone

Postby NonTocareLeTete » 21 May 2015, 19:07

eddie4 wrote:It is really hard to forget someone you care or love. But sometimes thing just happened out of control. But life goes on and you never know what awaits in future. My suggestion avoid the place visit or any thing attach with her reminds the memory.


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I actually used to go to all of the places taht were special to us or that relationship, and make a new memory with a new person (not necessarily a love interest, but someone who made me feel good). Then, wandering around the city wasn't like trying to walk around landmines. If I ran into a place that reminded me of the one I'd lost, I'd remind myself that I had a new memory in that place.
Repeat as needed.
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Re: How to forget someone

Postby Il Ðoge » 22 May 2015, 12:40

Some people conclude that if you broke up with them, it wasn't really love.

What is love? Baby don't hurt me...

When love is defined individually, subjectively and solely in emotional terms then every heartache can be love and life sucks. If love is defined in other ways, such as in terms of your relationship, the community, family etc. then it's easier to move on. This is just one reason why sin/selfishness/attachments are hurtful to someone in the long run.
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Re: How to forget someone

Postby urodacus » 22 May 2015, 16:11

take up heroin.
The prizes are a bottle of f*!@#$% SCOTCH and a box of cheap f!@#$#$ CIGARS!

Too many people! Almost all of the world's problems are due to overpopulation. The rest are due to religion.

50% of the world's wild animals have disappeared in the last 50 years. Did you eat them, or eat their house?
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Re: How to forget someone

Postby hansioux » 22 May 2015, 17:03

I think what is said here can be summed up as:

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Easier said than done for some though, by some I mean me.
Don't confuse me with your reasonableness.
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