splitsec002 wrote:I Guess you guys are probably right. I even said to her once that she must be bored to spend so much time talking to me. So maybe I'll treat it as just that. Someone I can play around with. Thought that might be playing with fire lol. I already have a lot of feelings for this one. It's hard for me to get interested in people.
And therein lies the danger. Were she a car, she would be an Alfa Romeo, a thing desired by the HEART but the MIND should know better.
You are hooked on her, and its hard to not continue to fall further on the slippery slope. If you ain't equipped for this war, you may win a battle or two but ultimately you will be left picking up the pieces. This one you have to throw everything into the pot and hope you come up a winner. And you probably got less then half a chance as the house is going to win.
She's playing you like a cat with a mouse. Why do we call em pussycats eh? Women can often be diabolical. You can ask her (like Enigma) es-tu diabolique ou divin? But i suspect I know the answer and so do you.
Let's recap, she's got a husband and a boyfriend and shes out playing the field, sniffin around at who takes a fancy to her. Shes bored as heck and looking for adventure. She's the kind to make memorable memories with but ultimately will leave you with a broken heart. Trapped in distress like a rat down a sewer pipe.
If you ain't a playboy yourself , you are gonna get played big time. You will have to be a PLAYA to mess with this chick. Or at least BIG enough a rat that you can get out of that sewer on your OWN, cuz that is where you are gonna end up. On your OWN.
Lawd knows I BEEN THERE, done that, got several t-shirts !
But hey, at the end of the day, these women are likely to be the ones that you are gonna REMEMBER.
Gonna hate yourself maybe but you are going to REMEMBER em.
So hey, its life. If you are brave enough, why not take the tumble. Just fall right in, forget the parachute, its not the fall that will kill you, its the landing !
Its a skill that we learn, how to say Hello to ladies. A much much harder skill, one I have yet to master as well, is how to accept it when they say "Goodbye"
Let me get my popcorn.