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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby naijeru » 28 Oct 2015, 05:33

Ermintrude wrote:
splitsec002 wrote:
She's obviously somewhat interested. But she tells me she cannot come to the US and that I shouldn't like her because she's a bad girl.


When someone says something like this, just believe them.

I don't doubt she wouldn't mind fucking you or having your flatter her because her husband's busy or boring or whatever, but that doesn't mean it's 'going anywhere'.

A million times this! @OP She must have an amazing "nice-girl' act for her TO TELL YOU she's trouble and you're still thinking about marriage and kids. Ain't nothing particular about Taiwan to sleuth this one out.
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby tommy525 » 28 Oct 2015, 08:26

Lordy lordy. YOu want to marry a CHEETAH???? You is gonna get your butt bit ! I married a CHEETAH once and guess what??? She CHEATED ON ME. Now ain't that sumthin else huh? Imagine that happening? Well I didn't , and I was clearly as stupid as the day the stork brought me. And i never found happiness until the day i could say GOOD BYE to her , I mean for REAL in my mind. I finally figured it out. Everyone else knew the train wreck I was headed for, but me.

If you want to mess around with her. Look at yourself in the mirror and practice how to say GOOD BYE.

IF and this is a big one, you guys actually are still hanging around each other five years from now in a real relationship, you can consider marrying her. Otherwise its just plain dumb with a capital D.
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby zender » 28 Oct 2015, 09:21

Lol I got a bad feelin' about this one. Sounds like she's lyin' about her boyfriend/husband.

Lol Did she try to sell you facial cleanser? And what is the common interest that brings together these group chats?

Just be careful, especially if you have sex with this married? woman in Taiwan. That could put you in prison.

You should wear a rubber if you do it with her. In fact, put one on right now . . . just in case. Lol

And don't tell her you make a million dollars a year.
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby triceratopses » 28 Oct 2015, 10:05

If she's model caliber its very likely that she is a line/wechat prostitute. What does her boyfriend/husband look like?
A Japanese man has been arrested on suspicion of writing a computer virus that destroys and replaces files on a victim PC with manga images of squid, octopuses and sea urchins. Masato Nakatsuji, 27, of Izumisano, Osaka Prefecture, was quoted as telling police: "I wanted to see how much my computer programming skills had improved since the last time I was arrested."
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby finley » 28 Oct 2015, 10:22

triceratopses, I know you're going to find this hard to believe, but not all women are prostitutes. Not even all good-looking ones. Sometimes things are just exactly as they seem.
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby super_lucky » 28 Oct 2015, 10:52

splitsec002 wrote:If anyone has some insight pls share!


Probably gonna get flamed for this, but it is with the best intentions.

I sense some sort of mid-life crisis. Sorry. I've been 38, just, you know, minus the million clams. Regardless, the only reason a single, successful man might be willing to endure such a fucked-up situation is either (a) he's kind of lost and desperate, (b) unhappy or dissatisfied in his own skin, or (c) a combination of a and b with a mix of life in general.

You occasionally sound like you're on the ball here, splitsec002, but something tells me you're not being entirely straight with us. If you've managed to become a millionaire, it seems a bit fishy that you haven't connected the dots.

Seriously, why would you even consider dealing with someone who says, "I can't lie to you anymore." What? You've been lying to me this whole time? Why stop now? We had such a good thing going there. Come on, man. There's a very good chance her "husband" is a partner of convenience. Do you want to be her next daddy? Read into that as much as you want.

splitsec002 wrote:Then I'd pop a kid or two in her and then afterwards marry her lol. That would be the safest route


PLEASE do this. And then get back to us on the kid's first birthday.

splitsec002 wrote:She's not a bad person though. I can tell she's very sweet. Caring. works hard. Cares about her parents/family.


No, she's not a bad person. She's a narcissistic sociopath. Listen, I can be very sweet, caring, and hard working if I need to be. Has anyone ever met a hard-working 32-year-old model? And meanwhile, define "cares about her family."
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby super_lucky » 28 Oct 2015, 10:58

finley wrote:triceratopses, I know you're going to find this hard to believe, but not all women are prostitutes. Not even all good-looking ones. Sometimes things are just exactly as they seem.


You're right. But if triceratopses has ever played the game, then his comment is spot-on. The implication is that he has a working knowledge of the racket. Been around the block, heard this story before, might have even lived this story. I dunno. But that's when you acquire the ability to identify a professional in the wild, more or less. I.e. if it sounds like a trumpet, it's probably not a saxophone. Unfortunately, a lot of people are bought and sold in this society. Call it what you want.
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby triceratopses » 28 Oct 2015, 10:58

finley wrote:triceratopses, I know you're going to find this hard to believe, but not all women are prostitutes. Not even all good-looking ones. Sometimes things are just exactly as they seem.


It would be a completely different story if she were single. Then yes, it could very well be an innocent encounter.

However that the group of model girls travel a lot is a red flag. That the bf gives "a lot of space" is a red flag. That she's so quick to spend so much time chatting with someone newly met is a massive red flag, at this point the options are either that she does this regularly and with many men, or that OP is a uniquely stunning older rich Asian guy.

What the bf looks like and whether he has money will inform you a lot about her intentions and what she is.

Also its very rare for me to meet a model caliber girl here who lives anything close to resembling an ordinary life. Flying to other countries to travel and chill out with rich guys is standard behavior for them.
A Japanese man has been arrested on suspicion of writing a computer virus that destroys and replaces files on a victim PC with manga images of squid, octopuses and sea urchins. Masato Nakatsuji, 27, of Izumisano, Osaka Prefecture, was quoted as telling police: "I wanted to see how much my computer programming skills had improved since the last time I was arrested."
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby finley » 28 Oct 2015, 11:30

super_lucky wrote:
finley wrote:triceratopses, I know you're going to find this hard to believe, but not all women are prostitutes. Not even all good-looking ones. Sometimes things are just exactly as they seem.


You're right. But if triceratopses has ever played the game, then his comment is spot-on. The implication is that he has a working knowledge of the racket. Been around the block, heard this story before, might have even lived this story. I dunno. But that's when you acquire the ability to identify a professional in the wild, more or less. I.e. if it sounds like a trumpet, it's probably not a saxophone. Unfortunately, a lot of people are bought and sold in this society. Call it what you want.


No, I get that, and I can see how his opinion fits with the 'bf/husband' story. But I doubt she would have put such a massive amount of effort into snaring one customer. If it appeared things weren't moving along at a profitable clip, surely she'd be looking elsewhere? That's just good business sense.

I dunno, maybe she's just not very good at her job. Or maybe he let slip about the $1m/year, which might justify a more protracted sales pitch.

Also its very rare for me to meet a model caliber girl here who lives anything close to resembling an ordinary life. Flying to other countries to travel and chill out with rich guys is standard behavior for them.

Doesn't that just contradict what you wrote above? There absolutely are lots of rich girls here, often living off parents' ill-gotten gains, who fly hither and thither because they've got nothing better to do, not because they're trawling for business.

Anyway, it's probably all irrelevant - she sounds like bad news regardless. Upshot is the OP needs to start thinking with the big head instead of the little head, but we all know it's not that easy ... :oops:
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby tommy525 » 28 Oct 2015, 11:36

Yup there are female versions of playboys

They are Playgirls
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