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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby best_intentions » 28 Oct 2015, 11:40

Sounds like she is bored and needs "things" to fill her life. Vacations, chatting up girls, chatting up dudes, ect fill THE VOID that is in her life. Is THE VOID going to be filled by you? Perhaps, but unlikely. She'd eventually get bored with you-- but you may get 3-5yrs of fun & drama maybe a kid and some lawyer bills. Is she bored with her husband/bf or is he bored with her? It's probably both and they are each cheating on one another. No way to really know without his side of the story.

Chatting/emailing is "low hanging fruit" with long distance relationships. You are 38yo, a millionaire living in LA. You should know "the score" when it comes to "chatting". You get in deep, super quick with chatting. The birth of a new relationship is always the best, craziest, fun part because it is pure emotion and potential of what could be because you cannot see each other. Even this drama between the two of you is fun in a way. It's the hunt. It's the fisherman struggling, fighting the fish trying to reel it in and then after it is caught asking if you should eat it or throw it back to sea. You write: "But she tells me she cannot come to the US and that I shouldn't like her because she's a bad girl." What if a fish told you it was poisonous or would make you have diarrhea for months while you had it in your hands? Would you throw the fish back then? "Good girls" do not tell people they want to marry they are bad girls. Bad girls tell that to dudes who are in too deep to secure a tighter grip.

You say you are picky but seems like a liar and a girl who loves DRAMA is high on your priority list. I don't think she is a gold digger-- but probably because she has already struck gold. Perhaps her family has wealth, perhaps her husband has wealth. I can guarantee you that she knows you are doing very well for yourself. Women of a certain type have Gold-dar (gold radar-- copyright pending on that word). But money is not what she is after as she probably has plenty and money was not able to buy happiness. She is not a bad person, but emotionally-- with men-- she might have issues. Women like this can be hard to tame. But there is no shortage of men that would like to try. What fuels these types of women is the drama and going from giving affection to withholding it to giving again and the cycle continues.

You sound like a better man than me. Personally I would have fun with her very casually when she comes to visit you. Keep that diamond ring at home or in a safety deposit box : )
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby triceratopses » 28 Oct 2015, 12:09

finley wrote:But I doubt she would have put such a massive amount of effort into snaring one customer. If it appeared things weren't moving along at a profitable clip, surely she'd be looking elsewhere? That's just good business sense.


While these girls have many clients, they are all-the-while looking for the right one to settle down with should such a one come along. Especially as they get older.

Also its very rare for me to meet a model caliber girl here who lives anything close to resembling an ordinary life. Flying to other countries to travel and chill out with rich guys is standard behavior for them.

Doesn't that just contradict what you wrote above? There absolutely are lots of rich girls here, often living off parents' ill-gotten gains, who fly hither and thither because they've got nothing better to do, not because they're trawling for business.


So in addition to OP being a uniquely amazing and rich older Asian guy, she's a model type, who also has rich parents that give her lots of money to live off of.

She has no need of money from certain night-time activities, despite being given "a lot of space" by her bf.

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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby finley » 28 Oct 2015, 12:15

Ah, Taiwan. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious :wink:

Even if you're right, I suspect this is not the girl he's looking for. Move along.
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby urodacus » 28 Oct 2015, 12:30

can you give me her number? I'm free for the moment.
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby tommy525 » 28 Oct 2015, 13:47

I'm not totally free, inexpensive I am though :) If i wasn't married, I could be game for a coupla Playgirls.

I always used to say 3 types of women in Taiwan:

1. Those that are out to get married. I call these the goody goody girls. They are low mileage , nice girls who want to get hitched.
2. Those that are Married. These girls you should stay away from PERIOD.
3. The Party girls. Those that just wanna have fun. These are the ones you wanna hang with before you get hitched to a ball and chain. Some of them want money from you though. Some want something else. They all want something .
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby Baas Babelaas » 28 Oct 2015, 15:53

Would be interesting to see pics of the OP and the Playgirl. See if they match up, physically..

Actually no need for the OP's pics. Just the broad's.
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby urodacus » 28 Oct 2015, 17:02

tommy525 wrote:I'm not totally free, inexpensive I am though :) If i wasn't married, I could be game for a coupla Playgirls.

I always used to say 3 types of women in Taiwan:

1. Those that are out to get married. I call these the goody goody girls. They are low mileage , nice girls who want to get hitched.
2. Those that are Married. These girls you should stay away from PERIOD.
3. The Party girls. Those that just wanna have fun. These are the ones you wanna hang with before you get hitched to a ball and chain. Some of them want money from you though. Some want something else. They all want something .



Tommy, they ALL want something. Otherwise they're not gonna be with you.
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby headhonchoII » 28 Oct 2015, 21:47

I guess these girls have been working in some jiu dian previously, now they are getting older
Looking for a rich guy to get their hooks on, American to boot. There's a culture in Taiwan of gold diggers, it's often out in the open too. She's looking for the cash.
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby tommy525 » 28 Oct 2015, 23:23

Can't blame a girl for wanting to get a guy to settle down with. Especially one that can overlook her past "adventures".

Some guys have had more past "adventures" then professional call girls ! And they want their wife to not know or overlook their past too. So its all the same. Just girls are more likely to be paid for it, then men are.

If there is inequality, that's it. The guys should get paid for it too :)


This is interesting:

http://www.taipeitimes.com/News/taiwan/ ... 2003631200
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Re: Can't figure out this Taiwanese Girl

Postby splitsec002 » 29 Oct 2015, 04:39

@naijeru She does have this amazing nice girl act. But I actually believe her. When I talk about marriage and kids, it's just something I've been wanting for a few years now.

@zender How can having sex with her put me in prison. Are you joking or??? Lol Yes I'll wear a bag for sure. Never told her how much I make but her friend visited one of my warehouses. It's decent sized with over 20 employees running around. So her friend might of told her. I'm not sure. Oh, and just because I make around that much doesn't mean I spent it like crazy. I have a nice car and house. But I don't buy expensive stuff other than that.

@triceratopses She's definitely not a prostitute. I think I know who her husband is. I've seen pictures on facebook. He's ok looking. I'd say a 6-7. She's cute but not model caliber. She's really cute though. I'd say people would rate her an 8. Of course love is blind so I'd rate her a 9.5

@super_lucky My life is actually really great. Health is good, family is good. Finance is good. Only thing missing is the wife and kids. I've been looking for a while. The last long term relationship was 2 years ago and that was for 4 years. Since then I've dated/been with 2 girls. Both I could tell weren't marriage material so I dumped them. Just because you're a millionaire doesn't mean it's easy to find someone you can live with forever. I kinda knew she was married. That was my initial suspicion in the first place. So I tried to think of her as a friend, just chatting for fun. But when you're attracted to someone it's hard not to fall more deeply. She works in makeup. She's not a model at all. I'll definitely keep my guard up. Not gonna buy her anything. I've dated those types of girls before. They're really easy to sniff out.

@triceratopses They're hot prostitutes or anything. She used to work at an expensive jewlery store. But she quit recently to do makeup. Says she can make just as much and not have to work as many hours. Seems like she's changing her life realizing that she wants more time for herself instead of working 50 hours a week. Her other friend works a 9-5 job at a bank. Sleeps at normal times, shes just a regular girl. I'm surprised she's taking this vacation again so quick. The third one is a loser lol. She doesn't do anything but play Mj all day. I think she's the one hunting for my friend. Then there are 3 more girls that will be coming with them. But they're only staying for a week. Basically taking them to vegas, party then they'll be flyng back. I think its a chance for them to see the US with locals that will take them around. Maybe it's a free vacation since us guys are probably going to pay for most of the trip like dinners and stuff like that. Lol this is going to sound weird but I don't even care about sex. I'm not a horny person. Sure I wouldn't mind shagging her but I'm not the typical guy that thinks about sex all day. With my girlfriends I was fine doing it just once every 2 weeks or so.

@best_intentions She doesnt' like to talk about their issues too much. Obviously but from what I know he works alot. Is very busy and they have separate lives. She told me he's a model, but I think he's an engineer. But yeah, I can't know the real story from her. I don't think shes rich. From what I see, her house is small. She still lives with her mom. Lol I'm a little stupid when it comes to people I get attracted to. I really don't care if they even have a bf. I've stolen a few from my time. I really think she's not after money. Maybe she just wants to have a fling. It was interesting that she told me she has a bf but they'll break up. I've thought about it lately. If she admited she had a husband I would be much more inclined to not do anything with her and just be friends. We are going to Taiwan in Jan so we wanted them to show us around. It's just been this week that I decided she has a husband so this makes it easier for me to just have fun and not get too tied up in the whole mess. I thought she had a bf for about 1.5 months before this.

@triceratopses I'd like to think I'm a catch lol. Not to brag but I've never really had trouble getting girls. I'd say I'm an 8 in the looks department. And since I don't have the same mentality of getting into girls pants like most guys I think girls can sense that somehow.

@Baas Babelaas Physically I'd say we're a match. Not bad looking people. Slim and look young for their age. I'd love to share her pic lol but I don't think she'd like that. Who knows what happens on the internet.
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