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I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

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I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

Postby RNRN16 » 23 Dec 2015, 23:23

2 months ago, I met a guy on Badoo, I know there have many wired men on badoo who is called G;

G is normal guy when we went on dating first time,

we talked a lot odf things, one week later, when I said that seems like I like you,

G said I don't want to in hurry and I didnt see our connect ( exactly ! )

at first, we were happy only 1 month,

G is a very independent guy, only want to date with girls,

but he cant go to clubs to look for,

only via dating website and make other friends

G ever said to me, I don't like needy girl,

afterall, when I would like to go over to there, I have to ask to him,

he finds many excuses to refuse me, like as now I need to looking for a new job,

otherwise I don't know where I will be end up next year;

or said now its so complicated...I need to protect my coworkers;

so I need to take a break on the weekend.

finally I cant tolerate this situation,

I told him when will I arrive there, even I waited for him almost 2 hours,

he said I am crazy, even angry with me, I just want to try to communicate with him,

final , G has a good temper, and still listened to me ,

we agreed " let's no contact for a while "

I want to try communicating with him again when we finished our break,

these day I think a lot, I still want to be his friend ( simple friendship )

so I want to talk with him again...no stressful

I don't know what does he think about it ?

G is flriting with other girls on badoo ...



G teaches in privacy high school in New Taipei city,
maybe seems like he differents from others in cream school,

actually , all the same ...
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Re: I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

Postby Ermintrude » 24 Dec 2015, 14:01

RNRN16 wrote:
actually , all the same ...


No, people who teach English aren't 'all the same'.

He's not interested in you. He's been polite and gracious. You haven't, particularly.
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Re: I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

Postby robert the bruce » 24 Dec 2015, 14:43

He is probably married or has a serious GF or fiancee and all the online flirts (including you) are mere playthings for him. Where does he live ? If you don't know, you are wasting your time on this one. Move on
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Re: I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

Postby Yang Gui Zi » 24 Dec 2015, 17:14

markstraton wrote:In the western world, men often feign disinterest in order to see who will continue to pursue them even in the face of constant rejection.

You see, in his eyes, the longer you keep going, the more you prove that you're a real friend. Keep doing what you're doing! Contact him often(this advice is doubly true when he says he 'needs a break'), and show up at his house unannounced regularly. In fact the longer you wait at his home, the more he will realize you truly care.

Keep going and you'll beat all these other women he is talking with online.

Good luck!


Second post and he's already trolling. :no-no:

This is good advice to push him away faster. However, it seems G isn't that interested in you. Do yourself a favor and walk away. :2cents:
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Re: I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

Postby Andrew0409 » 24 Dec 2015, 17:31

move on. He's not interested.
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Re: I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

Postby RNRN16 » 24 Dec 2015, 21:10

robert the bruce wrote:He is probably married or has a serious GF or fiancee and all the online flirts (including you) are mere playthings for him. Where does he live ? If you don't know, you are wasting your time on this one. Move on



I know all of his things... LinkedIn is a easy to search website
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Re: I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

Postby RNRN16 » 24 Dec 2015, 21:19

he lived in Zhonghe and work at Nanshan high school, why doesnt he leave here ?
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Re: I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

Postby headhonchoII » 24 Dec 2015, 21:34

Foreigners ARE NOT ALL THE SAME.
No more to say on the subject except stop stalking people, it makes you look desperate and needy.
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Re: I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

Postby Andrew0409 » 24 Dec 2015, 21:39

I'm telling you to not waste another min thinking about this guy. It's blunt but it's the truth. There are other guys out there. Don't rush into a relationship with the wrong person. I rather find someone who I am compatible with and shows me respect at the age of 70 than be married to someone I end up not compatible with at my age where the only 3 things I can do is cheat, get divorced, or live a miserable life.
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Re: I don't know how to explain the man's behavior ? ( foreigner teacher in TW )

Postby tommy525 » 25 Dec 2015, 00:56

Yup I second Andrew. You like him but he obviously very much does NOT want a relationship with you. Sad but true.

Find another one that you like that also likes you.
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