LT wrote:I am likely the only Taiwanese female to reply to this. And I come here often to read but not post. But I had to respond to this. As someone that lived in Los Angeles for a while it is very funy to hear an American say the guys there are boring! If that is the case (and I am not a self hater) most Taiwanese men, are zombies!
NOT all, but most of our men are brought up to study, work, study, work PC games. Most guys are bad at romance because they don't have time for it, though its changing. You don't know how many of my Taiwanese co-workers and friedns/relatives etc would love to bag a white girl (or latina and yes some even black now!) - Fantasy. Truth is many guys don't have the nerve to talk to you and there are other factors.
You will have to find a guy that traveled or is very openminded. The most sophisticated Taiwanese guys often hang out a jazz clubs, business events, trade shows and concerts which have international acts, etc. This is my experience.
As for kissing, the young guys are getting there but many Taiwanese guys over 30 lack passion or technique. This is not a slight, but just because they get little practice also they watch Hollywood movies and American porn too. So they think western guys are all better and "bigger". As for the bedroom. Guys are influneced by japanese culture. I've been to the doctors office and male doctors (Taiwanese) have told me 10-15 minutes of sex is enough! TRUE. Some girls in the office talk about how their guys can last 20 minutes on good nights. And ask local girls about how local men may get angry if you want to switch positions!
That being said there are some Taiwanese men that are fun, interesting, sexy and good lovers. BUT you have to go on a mission to find them. They 're slowly getting better . When I lived in L.A. my cousin came to visit and he had a few white girls all over him. That is because he surfs, has a 6 pack, does kendo and was confident form living in Australia for 4 years. THEY ARE OUT THERE GOOD LUCK!
Oh and all the foreign guys are not American right! The guy I was dated last year was Afro-Brazilian-German!
LT, the reason most Taiwanese men (and most Asian men) have to work and study because LIFE IS HARD in that part of the world. You think everyone lives like middle-class Americans who can afford to buy fancy clothes and cars and play kendo and guitar and surf? Doing all those things takes MONEY. Not everyone has the same resources and opportunities as those in the most advanced nations. Taiwan is NOT like the first world, and much of Asia is 2nd or 3rd world at best. And throughout human history the only thing that enables people to improve their socioeconomic status is THROUGH EDUCATION. Man, western culture really did some job on you people, didn't it, since there SO MANY Asian women who think like you do. You go to western countries thinking you can learn more about the world, but instead you come back and trash your own people.
Instead of comparing 2nd or 3rd world Asian men against 1st world western men, you really should compare them on an EQUAL FOOTING. Try comparing Asian men and western men in a similar socioeconomic background, such as Asian-Americans against white Americans. Take a look at this regarding interracial marriages in the US: http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/interracial-dating-trends-1125675.html . The 2008 US census data show there are actually 193000 out of 2991400 Asian men married to white women, and that's 6.5%; and only 713000 out of 56249000 white men are married to Asian women, and that's only 1.6%. In other words, we Asian men whom you think are so inferior and undesirable to women are actually MORE LIKELY to get white women than white guys getting our women. And that's IN America, in white guys' own backyard. Oh but there's more: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/03/07/AR2009030701841.html . This article says Asian-American women are now more and more likely to marry their own kind because they realize white guys ain't all that; hence, their interracial marriage rate fell from 42 to 33% during '90-'00. FANCY THAT! Together with the fact that Asian-Americans have lower unemployment rate than whites (7.5% vs 10% according to http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2009-11-15-asians_N.htm ) and the fact Asian kids do so well in high schools that white kids actually have to RELOCATE to avoid academic competition with Asian kids ( http://wsjclassroom.com/teen/teencenter/05nov_whiteflight.htm ) just show that when put in an EQUAL FOOTING, Asian men can hang with white men any time anywhere.
So LT, feel free to trash Asian men as often as you can if it makes you FEEL BETTER. There's really nothing wrong with our culture, our men, and our abilities to make women happy.
P.S. Now here are just a few samples of Asian-American men married to white women. Note that these are circa 2004 with last names beginning with C only, but you get the picture they are actually quite prevalent: