I really do not want to talk about my past with my SO. She knows that my past has been... livelier. 2 divorces, one long relationship after the second divorce, and then a few more little bits and pieces there. Do not ask, do not tell seems to be the way that works, and thank God for that.
Her past - she has told me a fair bit earlier on, I listened politely to it. Did I feel jealous? Not really, things change over time, and the persons she liked back then and the person she is with now are all so different. Some of the stuff she told me was from 20+ years back, fine and good, she can talk, I will listen and brush off too many questions.
We all change, our wishes when it comes to our partners change as we mature, and that's it. Nothing is forever, and the person you were happy with 20 years ago is not always the person you are happy with today. Life is a journey after all, the scenery and the persons might change, and so will you.
Jeg er hvad jeg er.
Bring Zain back!