AmyLord wrote:People do not become physcho xiaojie with no reason.
As far as I know lots of girls in Taiwan turn into physcho xiaojie because they watched and learned from how their parents interact.
Psycho mummy, psycho xiaojie.
So my advice is check the mother ASAP if you're considering spending the rest of your life with a Taiwanese girl.
Yeah ... that's pretty much a human universal. It's just rather sad that it seems to be so common. I'm not suggesting "western" culture is much better - we screw up our kids in different ways
AmyLord wrote:btw emotional stability is not always a good thing...at least not for me.
I was dumped by an ex-bf because he thought I was too emotionally stable.
"It's like you could virtually live without me. It's like you don't care."
Maybe he's a psycho shiansheng...but when that happened more than once I couldn't help questioning myself.
I think that proves Divea's point from way way back ... some men want to be the "knight in shining armour". I prefer women who have their own lives and don't feel the need to phone me every 20 mins asking "how are you? did you eat? etc", or who will throw a wobbly if I fail to do the same.
If you're still single, what are you doing next weekend?