jwbrunken wrote:fu xiao wrote:And all I've been doing since my last prenatal is watching my ultra-sound DVD and trying to figure out if my baby will be ugly or not...and the conclusion is: NO BABY OR CHILD LOOKS UGLY TO THE PARENTS AND NOBODY ELSE HAS THE RIGHT TO GIVE A NEGATIVE JUDGEMENT!!!!!
Whoa, don't be looking to your ultrasound for your baby's looks. Any parent whose had those done, will tell you that they are much good for anything other than measuring the size of your baby's head and counting organs. My Sabrina looked like a deformed mutant alien with Down's Syndrome in her ultrasound, but check out our website and you'll see she looks just like a "yang wa wa" (caucasian doll in Chinese.)
You need to tone down all of the worrying fu xiao. Eat well, sleep well, and relax. Those are the best things you can be doing for your baby now. When it pops out you will have this unbeleiveably beautiful package (well, as previously posted, they aren't that pretty at first, but you get the idea) and have no idea what to do with it. Get a little support from your hubby in dealing with all that negativity from your family. Not good energy for your baby to be around.
Thanks for your support jwbrunken.
You know the TW family arent being that great to me either. The past 6 months or so, ive had to put up with his tempermental father whom doesnt seem to like me at all. And, treats me like a house slave, demanding that I do this and that I do that....rediculous manners he has got. Thats the everyday stress I have to deal with and ive got no other choice but to endure it.
And, now my hubby seems to think that with his new company he can swarn off on business trips every month or as he likes. Im 7 months pregnant for jezzz sakes...but my hubby thinks money and his business are more important than being with his wife. If he gets into this habit then maybe he'll miss my baby's birth..but he doesnt think like that does he, he's an Asian man..
I even need help to climb out of the chair these days cos my baby bump is getting to big..